fix(kugetsu): prevent excess agent spawning with flock + sequential processing

- count_active_dev_sessions() now excludes pm-agent.json from count
- process_queue() now calls kugetsu start directly (not opencode run)
- process_queue() uses dynamic batch size = available_slots
- process_queue() has retry logic (max 3 attempts) on failure
- cmd_start() now uses flock around critical section
- Added notification types: task_queued, task_dequeued, task_started, task_completed, task_error
- Removed QUEUE_DAEMON_BATCH_SIZE config (no longer needed)

Fixes issue #146

.github/ISSUES/fix-queue-daemon-excess-agents.md

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